Physical Attraction

So here's the thing about me. I tend to crush on a lot of cute guys, and my single taste is just a turn off to most people (like people would even like a wallflower like me). So me and my friend have this sort of debate. Girls, what's your view on this? A hot shirtless guy with massive abs and toned muscles or shrimp shy guys, tall, sweet and mysterious? So, me and my friend can both agree on whats hot, I mean we have somewhat a similar taste, but then our internal taste is just way too different and thankfully that's what makes us best of friends. Its such a relief that we can't crush on the same guy. But anyway, so we currently both have our own crushes, and yes we are love sick puppies. And our debate still stands, which is normal for a girl to think about in a man? Or what is the typical physical features a woman should look in a man?

I personally prefer, Asian guys (must be a really bad habit from watching too many k-dramas and anime) not too skinny and not too bulky. Collarbones are really sexy, and shoulder blades.... slender guys with a little meat is fine I guess (and yet I argued to my other guy friend that's its not like i'd eat him when he complained that my crush was super skinny without any meat on him) baby faces but not too babyish, tall, and mysterious. I don't know, its just in my nature to fall for shy mysterious guys.

My friend complains that he doesn't has an ass because *coughs* too skinny, and she on the other hand prefers guys with ass, and i'm just like, gurl do you only look on people's ass? And she'd say, asses are hot, and its part of the survival, and I'm like, it's not like I'd even want to touch it. She likes muscular guys, hot bad boyish guys, sporty, tanned, and all those good stuff average girls fall for.

Then this one time she told me that I needed help from a friend and sends me 6 different pictures of half naked guys, each although smoking sexy and hot, just isn't my type. I mean I acknowledge the fact that they are sexy, hawt, and damn they really have a banging hawt body, but then, something about men with too many muscles frightens me. It feels like a symbolism of dominance, power, abuse, maybe its just me with my past, but there is something with my preference that is innocent and unique. Stereotypically, although not all guys with muscles are like this, guys with masses of muscles tend to be aggressive, and although you'd feel warmer wrapped around with all those corded muscles, I feel the sense of innocence and security with an average body of a man, not that I mean just any kind of body of man or man at that matter, but a slender figure, maybe a little athletic built like a slight tone of biceps, but abs, aren't things i'd want to find in a potential love interest. Finally, my idealism of a guys physical features, is just as I had said, I want to feel warm without someone with a showy body, cuddle with him somewhere with his strong hold, and not just plain muscle.