It's not that I can't relate...

My favorite quote of all time by Kakashi Hatake sensei "it's not that i can't relate, it's just that I don't feel the same way". (Naruto Shippuuden - for those who are wondering) I gotta admit I was laughing at the same time wishing I could fist bump him. It's like me saying "it's not that I don't like you alone, it's just that I hate socializing with people like you" I'm not a human hater since I am a human after all, it's just sometimes I just hate people's reasoning behind hatred. Sometimes I thought of myself as a guidance counselor since I always have to listen to people's problems, it's not that I don't like it because I love to listen to people and try to help them with their problems. But the people I can't tolerate are those who talks about others behind others back especially if they are our friends. Well there are some people who I'd agree with when they are reasoning, but most of the time I'd just agree half heartedly just to avoid confusion and conflict. I hate being in the middle of things, so if I you have to make me choose between you or them and vice versa please don't because I don't like taking sides. Since I'm in a diverse group of friends there is no avoiding conflicts. there is this person that I could really relate with and there would be this person who'd want me to agree with them even if its not right. Again, its not that I can't relate its just that I dont feel the same way, maybe that person is annoying but that doesn't mean I'll discriminate that person right? If they want to remove that person from that group don't be upset and be a b**** to someone who feels the same way as the other. Im an easy going person and i'd be friends with anyone so if you have someone you hate dont expect me to hate them as well because you could just be judgmental and you aren't even trying to get to know them. But if that person does have a bad attitude then maybe I'd agree.